[사회,문화,여행] (레딧) 이럴때 외도 의심?
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(레딧) 이럴때 외도 의심?
Would you be suspicious if your spouse seemed to enjoy work more than being at home?
여러분은 부인 혹은 남편이 집에 함께 있는 것보다 밖에서 일하는 시간을 더 즐기는 것처럼 보인다면 외도를 의심할 것 같나요?
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jdmayhugh
Prolific Commenter
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22 hr. ago
My first wife was like this. I chalked it up to being career minded but later found out she was trying out my replacement.
내 전부인이 이랬었어요. 첨엔 일을 너무 좋아해서 그런가보다 싶었는데 나중에 보니 날 대신할 사람을 찾고있었더라고요.
BusinessPart7118
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21 hr. ago
Hiding the phone is a major red flag
폰을 숨긴다면 그게 가장 위험신호인듯
ATipsyBunny
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22 hr. ago
Instead of being suspicious set them down and have a heart to heart talk. Say you’re happy they enjoy work but it’s starting to hurt your feelings with how much they prioritize it and ask for a day just for you two.
의심하기 보단 먼저 마음을 털어놓으며 진심으로 대화를 먼저 해봐요. 일을 즐기는 건 좋지만 일에만 우선순위를 두어 감정이 상한다고. 그리고 둘만의 날을 만들어보고요.
offwivisead
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20 hr. ago
Ok...I was exactly like this during my affair..
내가 외도중일때 그랬어요...
humanoid1982
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20 hr. ago
Don’t ignore the gut feeling
직감을 무시하지마요.
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Hadenoughlifeyet
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22 hr. ago
It depends on how stressful your home life is. If you are coming home to a stressful environment after work, most people will do whatever to avoid being there.
이건 집에서 얼마나 스트레스를 받는지 안받는지에 달려있어요. 퇴근하고 집에왔는데 짜증나는 상황이라면 대부분 사람들이 피하고 싶어하죠.
Force_Choke_Slam
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22 hr. ago
It would depend on the job.
이건 일에 따라 다를 것도 같네요.
Distinct_Walrus8936
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22 hr. ago
I’d be kinda pissed they liked work more than me
나보다 일이 더 좋다면 정말 짜증나는 일이긴하네요.
PhillyCSteaky
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21 hr. ago
She was far more into "work" than her family. I didn't get custody because she refused to pay child support. She got child support from me though. Also was screwing around with a married man. His wife called me a number of times chiding me because I didn't have my wife at home. I was busy taking care of 3 small children. I was backed into a corner.
내 전부인은 가족보다 일에 훨씬 더 집중해있었어요. 그 여자가 양육비 주는 걸 거절했어서 양육권도 못가져왔어요. 애들을 본인이 키우죠. 또 다른 유부남을 망치기도했어요. 그 유부남의 부인은 나한테 여러번 전화해서 비난했는데 그때 내 전부인은 집에 있지도 않았거든요. 난 어린 세 아이들을 돌보느라 바빴고 코너로 몰린 상황이였어요.
Pheobe0228
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22 hr. ago
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edited 22 hr. ago
Why do they need you when they are married to their work?
일이랑 결혼한 사람이랑 왜 사나요
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ReshKayden
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22 hr. ago
It seems like there's two possibilities here: either positive is happening at work, or something negative is happening at home
이럴땐 두가지 가능성이 있는거죠. 긍정적인거라면 직장에서 뭔일있거나 부정적인거라면 집에서 무슨일이 벌어지고 있다거나
TryingMyBestBeKind
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20 hr. ago
It might be possible that your partner doesn't have much of a community of friends.
배우자가 친구층이 다양하지 않다면 그것도 가능한 일이죠.
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CtrlAltDestroy33
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8 hr. ago
A guy I dated told his wife he was picking up extra shifts in order to spend time with me. I had no idea he was married, and when I found out he was married, I dumped his ass fast. His wife and I met later, she told me that this is what he would tell her.
내가 데이트했던 남자가 있는데 자기부인한테 일이 더 많아졌다고 둘러댔었어요. 나랑 시간 더 보내려고 말이죠. 난 그때 그가 유부남인걸 몰랐었고요. 유부남인 걸 알았을때 바로 차버렸죠. 나중에 그 사람 부인과 만났었는데 자기한테 그렇게 둘러댔다고 하더라고요.
GoodGriefCharlieB
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5 hr. ago
That’s how my ex husband was also. Work is also where he met the woman he cheated on me with. When I discovered the affair quite by accident (thanks, florist who sent a discount naming the person he’d sent flowers to!) I filed for divorce.
내 전남편도 그랬어요. 직장에서 여자 만나고 다녔죠. 우연히 그가 꽃 보낸 여자 이름이 적힌 할인 카드가 우리집으로 오는 바람에 외도사실을 알게되었죠. 이혼신청했고요.
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Exktvme4
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15 hr. ago
I wouldn't be suspicious, but I'd look into why they don't want to spend more time with you. Could be they're just wrapped up in work, could be a failing marriage
난 의심하진 않겠지만 나랑 왜 더 시간 보내고 싶어하지 않는지는 알아볼 것 같네요. 일을 마무리 짓고 있는 건지 아니면 결혼에 문제가 있는건지
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MaggieMews
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18 hr. ago
My ex-husband became very weird with his phone. Very protective, started charging it face-down, wouldn't let me use it to play music, etc. He was having an affair with his employee. I have no idea why I didn't see it sooner, but I trusted him and didn't see the signs until the pieces all fell into place.
I hope that's not the case for you. But the phone thing struck a nerve for me.
내 전남편은 휴대폰 다루는 데 있어 아주 수상했어요. 굉장히 숨겼고 뒤집어서 충전하고 내가 음악도 못틀게 만지지도 못하게 했어요. 자기 직원이랑 바람피고 있더라고요. 왜 더 빨리 발견하지 못했는지 모르겠지만 그를 신뢰했었고 모든 조각들이 맞춰질때까지 전조를 알아차리지 못했었죠.
jerseyjokes
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10 hr. ago
She might be at work more because she just doesn’t like being around you. On the bright side she might not be cheating.
그저 당신곁에 있기 싫어서 직장에 더 있을수도 있어요. 그럴 경우 좋은 점은 적어도 바람피는 건 아니란 거죠.
SuperSpeshBaby
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9 hr. ago
I wouldn't be suspicious of extra work by itself, but hiding/being protective of the phone is a huge red flag all the time.
일이 더 많이지는 것에 대해선 수상하지 않지만 전화기를 숨기거나 보호하는 것 처럼 보이면 늘 큰 수상한 신호에요.
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